Kenya – A Guilty Pleasure 

When booking a trip to Kenya I really didn’t know what to expect. I wasn’t booking with any major tour operator like Kuoni who are renowned for their luxurious Safari trips. I wanted something a little more raw but had been warned to play it safe out there. 

Going to a resort with armed guards patrolling the perimeter puts me on edge and spoils my desire to understand the culture. On this trip however, that desire was well and truly fulfilled! 

Upon arriving in Kenya and stepping outside to see our prebooked group transfer (something I always hate to do and rarely participate in) our jaws dropped as we saw the somewhat run down mini-coaches that were to be our chariots. Clearly MOT’s are not something that Kenya part-takes in. 

We reminded ourselves that 4star here would not be what we are used to in Europe and that we had said we wanted a more realistic experience of Kenya. 

With our luggage strapped to the roof we were away on the part dirt track/part Tarmac roads to our resort – Dolphin Hotel on Shanzu Beach, Mombasa. 


It occurred to me whilst driving passed the mud huts and watching ladies carrying water on their heads that the huge billboards scattered on the roadside advertising Nike trainers and mobile phones were very much misplaced. 

The resort itself was fine on most levels. Salt water showers in the room though was never going bode well for a 10 day stretch so we resorted to showering by pouring bottles of fresh water over us. We shared our shower with a couple of lizards who I became very fond of by the end of the trip. 

The food was edible. I stuck mainly to bread rolls which were served with unsalted butter (you realise how you take such things as a bit of salt for granted), some bits of salad and chips. Very extravagant! But even with eating just that I would end up after ever meal just like the rest of the holiday makers spending much time in the toilets. 

The Shanzu Beach was lovely but we couldn’t venture out onto it very much as would be harassed by the locals to such an extent that we were swamped. The local traders would all sit on the rope that sectioned off the small area allocated for the hotel residents, staring back at you waiting to catch your eye. You daren’t look out to the sea as it would create no end of fuss and commotion from them.


We found that if we waited until the lunchtime high heats when the traders would go for a nap under the nearby palm trees that we would be able to race down to the water for a few minutes perhaps only being pounced upon by one or two traders. 

Upon going stir crazy we were overheard discussing venturing out of the armed resort for a stroll around. Two female holiday makers approached us to warn against it. 

They had apparently been coherst into venturing out by one of the male hotel staff. He had told them to go to a dance bar just down the road and that it was very safe and that he would also be there and would look out for them. 

They apparently had an awful experience of much unwanted and at times aggressive attention. They fled the venue and struggled to get back to the hotel safely. It really did seem unadvisable to mingle with the locals outside of the resort staff which was much to my dismay. 

I was however pleased to be going on our two night Safari early on it our holiday rather than later. The attachment to the toilet became worse as the trip progressed and I’m not sure we would have made it through hours on end onboard a Safari truck with no toilets in sight had we gone on Safari towards the end of our holiday. 

Safari


We flew out to Tsavo East at the crack of dawn on a tiny 10 seater plane whereby men stand by it with fire extinguishers as it take off. It’s one aeroplane experience I won’t forget in a hurry and very much had me thinking my time was up. I was somewhat pleased (at this point at least) that we were to be driving back. 

We stayed at the Crocodile Camp sleeping in tent huts with plastic mattresses which had you sweating so much in the night that you wake up in a pool of water wondering if you’d had an accident!  

It was a great experience though to see the crocodiles come in at night for feeding and to hear the sounds of the wildlife around you.   


Out in the trucks at the crack of dawn to watch the sunrise and chase the animals across the park to get a good view was everything you expected it to be.

My highlight was the baby giraffe walking up over the hill. Wow. 


Deer and zebra became ‘two a penny’ and you soon stopped getting excited over them but to see the elephants, the lions, the eyes of the hippo etc were all great sights. 


It was a long long day venturing through the parks so what the trip home then went on to deliver was unwelcomed. We stopped for lunch on exiting the reserve and it was then around a 5 hour drive back to the hotel. 

Enroute our driver decided to stop off at his own home as he doesn’t get to see his family often and wanted to eat with them. It was only for maybe 20minutes but the 6 of us were stuck in the truck like sitting ducks for the drivers friends and family to harass us into buying their wares. 

We then drove on and stopped at a Masai Mara village, which wasn’t on the itinerary, and which appeared to be very much staged. We were all hustled out of the truck to go into the village where we were charged a fee to be walked around to see how they lived. They then performed a tribal dance and circled around us quite menacingly. We were pleased to be moving on! 


The endless dirt track journey home shook us to bits and had us all covered in red dirt, over heating (no aircon) and just feeling quite forlorn after being exposed to the harsh reality of the poverty that exists in the townships. 

As we drove through town after town locals would run up to the truck some asking for water others hopeful of money to be thrown out of the window for them. Children chasing after us just for fun to break up their day.  

Upon arriving back to what now could be appreciated as a luxurious hotel room I couldn’t help but look over at the ridiculously expensive shampoo and conditioner I had invested in for this trip to keep my hair from burning and my wardrobe full of many new clothes and flip flops and well…., just feel guilty. 

Taking this route home from safari rather than just flying back exposed the true lives of many Kenyans which is often hidden out of sight from holiday makers. 
Whilst it certainly took the shine off of the magnificent animals I had seen; it was after all what I had said I had come here to see – the true Kenya. 

It became even more confusing to see that what lies next to such poverty would occasionally be such riches with the odd scattering of a mansion style house locked behind walls and gates. 

Who are these people that live like kings amongst such poverty?

 In a sense, this is life and exists in every country and culture of course but I have never seen it at quite so opposite ends of the scale as I have here in Kenya. 

Upon leaving our resort at the end of our trip we were told that we could not leave money to the employees. They would be accused of steeling it, it would be taken from them and that they would be sacked. 

Instead we could leave ‘items’ if we listed what we were leaving and who we were leaving them to. 

It was a little like writing a will! 

I left everything I thought would be of use or something they may be able to sell. I left clothes, shoes, hats, sunglasses, toiletries, etc and went home with a case half empty. 

Would my contribution change life’s? Of course not, but I could leave knowing that in return for these people opening up their country to us to marvel at the wild animals that I could at least say a small thank you to the local people that seem to benefit little from tourism.  

I arrived back to the UK with a whole new appreciation and gratitude for the things I have in my life. 

Larking around on the River – Canal Boating Craziness!

Hiring a barge and venturing out down the canals, having a go at operating the locks and seeing where our travels could take us (with a few pub stops enroute) had always been something I fancied doing.   So when invited along with a group of friends for a family fun canal boating weekend I jumped at it! 


Convincing my other half that missing his tradition of the annual V Festival trip and instead taking our two little girls on a boating holiday along the Avon waterways along with another 12 people and 2 dogs, was actually an easier task than I had anticipated.  

Preparing to go? 

We rented our barge through Foxhangers in Devises, England. Not too far from Bath.  This organisation has you whipped into shape from the off with sending you a DVD to watch to learn the etiquette of boating, how to manoeuvre the beast of a boat and how to operate the locks (which looked far more too it than I had given credit to!) 

The one reassuring thing I took away from this DVD tutorial was that if I fell in, I would probably be able to stand up! Phew


What to Pack

Our boat came with a whole host of things and a handy equipment list of what we could expect on the boat was sent out to us beforehand. 

We had bedding and towels provided which is a huge help, but a few things that are handy to bring: 

Paper plates, plastic cups & cutlery (you don’t want to be spending your weekend washing up!)

Extra bin bags & toilet rolls 

Toiletries: these boats have bathrooms (2 in fact on our boat) and hot water and showers, yes you can wash and keep clean! It’s beaten camping for me already! 

Flip flops for inside the boat. Your shoes can can muddy on the banks 

Munchies! Although you can have your main meals in the pub, it’s great to sit out on the deck chomping on crisps, dips, olives, etc and a glass or two of wine. Arrrh this is the life! 


Food for breakfast: with the chaos of three children and four adults in our boat to get showered and ready each morning it was just easier to have breakfast on the boat.  Bacon rolls all round went down a storm! 

Brut strength: prepare yourself to need to use those core muscles. These locks, bridges and pushing off the bank is a tough days work. 

Life Vests for the little ones: although they will provide you with the standard type, I wanted one I thought my little one would feel comfortable to wear all weekend. 


Setting sail! 

After what seemed like a never ending briefing (all useful information of course) we finally were given the all clear to set off on our own down the canal.  With one blast of the engineer we were out of the gates and away! 

Steering this 62ft long boat is far harder than I had given credit to. My tip is to put your tallest person in your party at the helm and make them the captain.  Height is definitely helpful when tackling the manoeuvring of the boat. 


Within minutes of being out on the river we come across two swing bridges to work out. Not too challanging and then comes our first lock …. thank goodness for a helpful ‘old timer’ on hand to talk us through it.  


With no one over board, the boat still upright and water tight we’ve cracked it and onwards we go to …. another 7 locks, back to back until we reach our mooring point for the night. 

What fun we had. The weather went from sunshine to rain within seconds and back to sunshine again, whatever to wear! 

This is certainly not for the glamour-pusses out there. 

Regular pubs to stop at, ducks to feed and the trials and tribulations to overcome from what’s know as the ‘Towpath Telegraph’. You will here wise words of warning and stories of locks breaking and boats sinking ahead and to turn back, but in reality if you find the courage after all of these stories to continue, you actually find a boat just run aground and some half-wits operating the lock all wrong.  Drama over 

We survived the trip with no men or ladies or even children overboard! But we did have a pair of rather expenses sunglasses go in as well as a pampered pouch taking an unexpected dip! 

For a long weekend this is definitely something different to enjoy with the family or a group of friends. We found parks and pretty towns to stroll to along the route, fed copious amounts of ducks, marvelled at herons and horses and spotted the old bit of river road kill floating along. 

Having gone through the full experience of life on the river. Realising in actual fact you can have a TV, hot water, showers, central heating and cooking facilities you can see why some people chose to make this their perminent address and way of life.  

Would I? At a cost of at least £48,000 (we saw an old tatty boat up for sale) I can’t say this river life is going to draw me away from the rat race just yet. 

I can’t help but to wonder though, all these people that choose to get away from it all and live a slow and somewhat sheltered life as river folk; two years on do they really believe it’s still all they desire from life? Does anyone in their 20’s or 30’s chose to take this path?  

It’s a whole different world on the river and I’m just content to dip in for a weekend here and there! 

My FIRST’s…

I always shrill with excitement at the thought of a ‘first’ and of course the older we get and more travelled we become these experiences become  less frequent.

 

A ‘first’ is more fun when shared with someone who is also experiencing it as a ‘first’

 

Thinking back to some of mine;

The first county I ever visited outside of the UK:  SPAIN
(driving there through France)  

It was on a club cantabreca holiday with my parents and my three other siblings of which I am the youngest.  I remember the journey well, we went on a coach! It must have been around a 15 hour trip each way.

I couldn’t have been more than about 3 and it was at a time when you could smoke on coaches.  I was travel sick the entire way.

Even today I can recall the smell of the velour coach interior mixed with the stale smell of smoke. It makes my stomach churn when I come across that scent now. It was enough to mean I have never wanted to smoke or even try it!  Guess I should thank my parents for that experience then really!

The one other thing I remember about that trip is a Spanish drink pourer called a Porron. I recall, along with my brothers and sisters, we would fill it with squash and pour it down each other’s throats.  We brought one home as a souvenir which stayed with us for many years sat on the window sill and used to water the plants!

A Porron; used by my family to water plants!

 


My First time on a aeroplane: 

Aged 12; heading to Gran Canaria with my Dad, my two older brothers and my older sister.

I recall being so excited! And I remember the mini cans of drinks they serve on planes and thinking how cute they looked.

My dad bought us all shell suits to travel in. What a fashion statement! Mine was pink, white and purple. I don’t think I ever wore it again afterwards I’m pleased to say. My sister refused to wear one which she is still proud of to this day.


My brother was 16 at the time and just doing his GCSE’s. He had to fly home early to take his maths exam, which he came out with an appalling grade, so later was annoyed that he’d bothered to fly back. He doesn’t strike me as the type to have been revising on the plane though!

We stayed in an apartment complex and I recall my brothers waking up screaming and shouting as a cockroach had crawled across them.  My dad found a big nest of them under the kitchen sink and we went on to make up a stupid song about it.

“A cook-a-racha, a cook-a-racha,
I had to hit him on the head,
A cook-a-racha, a cook-a-racha.
Now his kinda flat and kinda dead”

Funny what stays with you!  My dad to this day still likes to change the words to songs to fit with what he’s doing and make us all laugh.

This holiday was also a First for me riding a camel.


My First time in the USA

Aged 19, I went with my dad, sister and a whole group of cousins to Orlando, Florida on a fly-drive holiday.

Between us all we rented three houses in a row, I can remember the road name being Greeley Loop, in Davenport.


I shared the master bedroom with my sister and we had a huge whirlpool bath.  The house was lovely, very stylishly furnished and had its own pool.

I recall taking my nail varnish off whilst sitting on the leather sofa and accidentally spilling the nail varnish remover and taking the colour out of the leather. I was terrified! Only my sister saw me do it and proceeded to spend the final day of our holiday blackmailing me or she was going to tell my dad.

I loved everything about America that I saw on that trip and had an amazing holiday.


My First time riding an Elephant 

Sri Lanka in September 2014. The elephants name was Rhani.

I went to what was classed as an elephant sanctuary but in actual fact it seemed more like cruelty to elephants to me and I left not wanting to ride the elephant or be a part of it.  Our taxi driver, picking up on my upset over it, took us down the road to this little place that was home to around three elephants and they had a little exhibition in the grounds of the elephants growing up and things.  It was a nice friendly place that clearly cared for their elephants, so here I rode Rhani.

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I had always said that I would love to get married arriving in on an elephant. I think that desire somewhat faded after realising how unflattering and possibly dirty I would look doing that!


My First time in a Helicopter 

April 2015 in Las Vegas with Maverick Helicopters off to see the canyon and fly the Vegas strip.


I am terrified of heights, so much so I don’t even like climbing the ladder to get into the attic.  It’s something I try to push myself on though as there nothing worse than letting your phobias stop you from doing the things you want to experience!

So I took a couple if travel sickness pills, hopped in the front with the glass nose right in front of me, put on my headphones and couldn’t have felt more safe with the pilot talking me through everything the entire way.  It’s was fabulous!


 

The first mountain I climbed

Mount Snowdon, in Wales

I must have been around 11 and was on holiday with my Dad, sister and aunty from Australia.  My dad woke up one morning saying “I’ve always wanted to climb Snowdon – who’s in?”

With no one else appearing that enthused, I volunteered to go with him.  We set off in our trainers, rain macs and a large family size pack of custard cream biscuits.

“Back in a few hours” my dad shouts back to my sister and Aunty.

Little did we know that there are several routes up the mountain, some safer than others and some for the more experienced climber.  Of course, we had accidentially picked the ‘black route’ with all sorts of dangers and hazards.  Nearing the top the wind picked up to gale force, visibilty was very poor and I remember us huddling behind a bush being terrified we were going to get blown off the top of a mountain.

Everyone else we saw pass us had been in full on climbing attire ready to scramble up the final cliff face to the top.  We had to turn back at the last hurdle, the mountain had beaten us!

Always makes me laugh that we didn’t bother to check the routes and were so unprepared for climbing a mountain.

I really must return to Snowdon to complete that climb!


The first year I travelled every month –     2016

Finally in a place to be able to take regular time out from my busy career, I set about a year of back to back trips with just a few weeks in-between to catch up with the office.  I’ve always fitted in multiple trips each year, but this was the first time that I covered all 12 months! So where did I go and how did I fit it all in?

Travelling doesn’t always have to mean putting on a back-pack and spending months on end away from home.  If your lifestyle or commitments don’t allow for that, then they are always ways to fit in seeing the world!

January – Long weekend to Reykjavik, Iceland

February – 4 days in Edinburgh

March – A week in Dubai

April – A long weekend in Venice

May – A weekend in Barcelona

June – London weekend on Sunborn Yacht Hotel

July – A week in Ibiza

August – A week in Croatia

September – A long weekend in Florence, Italy

October – 4 Days in Dublin

November – A long weekend in Paris

December – A week in New York, New York


 

With so many ‘firsts’ I could write on forever, but the more I think about those ‘firsts’ the more I realise how many things I would still like to do and experience.

Dancing Dolphin Deliberations in Varna, Bulgaria

When setting out on a trip to see any living creature in captivity; if you’re anything like me a few moral questions rear their ugly head, which you give a fleeting thought to, push to the back of your mind whilst telling the excited children what wonders they will see from the animal kingdom today.

I guess the hope is that you will find these creatures you have come to gawp at in a fantastic enclosure, in good health and maybe even part of a breeding programme and suddenly its all ‘happy days’.  In all fairness, in many places that is exactly what you do find and you can look on it utter amazement at the wonderful animals getting on with their daily lives, guilt free.
Whatever your view on animals in captivity, or if like me you are ‘sat on the fence’, it is hard to get through life without at some point seeing a dolphin show or two.

So, after numerous days sat by the pool and on the beach with two young girls, it seemed a change of scenery was in order; introducing a day trip to the Dolphinarium, Varna.

 

Getting there:

Hiring a car was easy through our hotel concierge. The car came via ‘Sixt’ and was just 200euro for 5 days for a 5 door Corsa which was in excellent condition.

The route is well signed and as soon as you come into Varna big blue signs took us straight to the Dolphinarium.

From Sunny Beach it was around a 2 hour drive.

When you arrive you are turned away at the entrance and told to park miles away and walk in. Ignore this, as soon as you turn in, drive round to the right and follow parking signs. There are a few little parking areas and you pay the guy when you return just a few lev. 

If taking the independent route isn’t for you, then there are coach trips to visit Varna and the Dolphinarium for the day which could be booked from your hotel concierge or one of the many Tourist Information kiosks scattered around the coastal resorts.




Tickets:
I had booked the tickets the day before via their website and paid with PayPal. I received the PayPal receipt on my email straight away but nothing came through from the actual Dolphinarium. 
When I arrived and showed the lady behind the counter my PayPal receipt I was told I hadn’t paid and would have to pay again.  It was insinuated that I was lying despite the evidence I was showing her.
I CLEARLY had paid and was an error with their website but there was no apology, no politeness and zero customer services. 
It was around 45euros for a family of four to watch the dolphin show (which I had now paid twice!)
Tip: they try to charge 5lv for the rights to take photos.  Everyone there gets out there mobile phones to snap away unpoliced. Ignore it. 
 
You don’t get any discounts for booking in advance. I can’t imagine the show is ever sold out as there are a large number of seats in the auditorium, so my tip is to just get the tickets on the day.
The swim with dolphin experience was fully booked for at least 10days, so if you are wanting to do this, book well in advance.  At 200lv per person (£100) for this dolphin ‘swim’ experience, you can see why they would be fully booked.  That is a great rate compared to many others.


The Show:

Not wanting to let the ticketing experience spoil our fun, we entered the arena full of excitement for the show and ready to be wow’d. 

My initial impression was that in this 40degree heat, this arena has a glass roof and no aircon.  Brushing off the hot and stickiness of it all and now two very hot and bothered children, it was a relief and all cheers to see the four dolphins start their display.

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Taking our seats at The Dolphinarium

The show is spoken all in Bulgarian so don’t expect to understand the parts of the show that are aimed at being humourous.  Bring snacks for this part, the children will switch off.

My initial animal welfare thoughts of the morning also came flooding back when I realised that the pool they were performing in appeared to be the largest and possibly only tank within the facility.  Needless to say, the pool itself was a little on the small side.

“It’s no ‘Seaworld’…keeps the kids entertained for 20mins”

The show is nothing amazing. It is around 20-30 minutes long. It has some good parts and the dolphins themselves are of course spectacular but if you have been to dolphin shows before this one is bound to leave you a little disappointed and wondering if you have just supported poor living conditions for dolphins in captivity.

There are no other animal enclosures to see whilst there, it literally is just the 20 minute show and an opportunity afterwards for a photo with a sea lion.

 

Photo with a Sea Lion:

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I didn’t get to give him a cuddle!

To try and string out our time here we thought we’d go for the picture with the sea lion for 12lv (£6.00). 

Again, the hosts there were just rude telling us to hurry when we were just asking the children who wanted to be closest to the sealion. No opportunity for the children to even give him a quick pat or even look at him. Understandable if the queue was huge or they wanted to get the animal back to his enclosure, but I couldn’t see that it was either. 

It felt purely like a money-making production line and I again felt like the animals welfare was perhaps not at the forefront of anyone’s mind here.

Had this been more of an opportunity for children to see this beautiful animal up close and gain an understanding of their size, feel and temperament etc. then it could have made for a worthwhile activity.  Assuming Mr Sea Lion is happy to perform of course.


Cafe:

There was a good restaurant/bar at the rear and you can sit outside and have a great view whilst enjoying a refreshing drink and a toastie. Really good value for money at around £20 for the four of us!

You can go inside to eat/drink (costs you 1.50lv (about 75p) per person just to walk in and you can look through the glass into the underwater of the dolphin pool and see the dolphins swimming. 

The water is very murky and you can see the poor condition of the tank floor. Again doesn’t make you feel too good to be supporting this.

Staff in the restaurant were surprisingly friendly! We haven’t found that often here in Bulgaria I’m sorry to say. So was a refreshing change.  

All in all, if you have nothing else to do, have young children under 10 and aren’t caught up in any morals surrounding dolphin shows, then it’s worth a quick visit but don’t expect to be amazed.

It’s a good idea if traveling up from Sunny Beach area to tie it in with a few beach visits on the way back. Kamchai is a great beach with a river running straight into it. Ibzor is a little further down and is a more commercialised beach resort.

Did I feel strongly enough that it was a cruelty to animals site?, No I wouldn’t go that far, but I still can’t help to conclude that I would much rather see these creatures in all of their glory out in the wild in their own habitat. 

Perhaps this all dates back to my first encounter with dolphins many years ago on a trip to Australia.  

On passing through ‘Tin Can Bay’ I had been told that wild dolphins can often be seen there and if you paddle in the waters they sometimes swim up to you.  I did exactly that and as sure as anything a wild dolphin swam up allowing me to stroke his head.  He stayed there for a while flipping around in the waters whilst I paddled, then off he swam back out to sea.

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Then of course there is no sight more spectacular when it comes to sea lions than seeing (and hearing) them all ‘hanging out’ of their own free will on Pier 39, Fishermans Wharf in San Francisco.  Another memory I will be unlikely to forget.

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For me, that is how I want to say ‘Hi’ to a Dolphin and a sea lion but I guess not everyone is lucky enough to have these opportunities or stories to tell.

Cinderella Meets Lord of the Rings; the magnificent Castle Ravadinovo, Sozopol, BULGARIA 

Wow what an amazing surprise! 

There is only so much Beach and pool that I can take on holiday before I start to get itchy feet to go out and explore. 

With unusual attractions a little thin on the ground on the Black Sea Coast here in Bulgaria, we have set out on a whim with no real expectations of what we will find. But who doesn’t like a pretty castle?..  and with two young girls it’s good to get them out of the hotel complex pool for the day and go and see some some of what Bulgaria has to offer. 

Getting There: 

It’s just over an hours drive from Sunny Beach area which is very well sign posted and a straight forward drive on good roads. 

The Castle: 

As I say, I have come with pretty low expectations and have read the reviews that it’s a new build made to look old and isn’t finished, so I’m just thinking ‘it is what it is’ and we can always shoot off to a nearby beach straight away if no good. 

As we drive up the dirt track approaching the castle, I am starting to wonder what I’ve dragged us all out here for. 

In the distance I can see the turrets of the towers and am thinking what a shame it is to see yet another water slide park in the background!

Work is still quite clearly going on and is visible as we abandon our car in the wasteland carpark and walk through the front gates. The magical feeling of the place grips me as soon as I walk through.  I just know I’m going to love it here! 

Mature grounds of Castle Ravadinovo
We are greeted by some un-uniformed guys who are sitting out on plastic chairs and who appear to make the price up for us to go through. At just 20lv (£10.00) for us all (family of 4) to go in, we are happy to pay and I can’t wait to see more! 

As we walk under the first arch we are stopped again for a photo with a castle guard which they wish to sell to us before we leave… hmmm we’ll take a look..

As I turn around and take in the breath taking view of the castle with its mature planting, I hear myself saying out loud;,

“This place is absolutely amazing”

The mystical arches in the grounds at Castle Ravadinovo

I wish I could have met the gentleman who had the inspiration for this and the means to turn it into a reality. 

It’s a kind of cross between fairytale princesses and lord of the rings with a touch of Greek mythology.

 It’s utterly beautiful and I can visualise with excitement what it will be like when completely finished. 

Frog ornaments can be found in random places around the ground…kiss one to find your prince!
Lord of the Rings style guards throughout
 

There is such great attention to detail in many places and each and every turn unfolds yet another mystical site. 

I have fallen in love with this unique castle so much that I have decided on the venue for my wedding over the destination of a wedding on a beach in Thailand where I had always planned to have it.

There is a lake with swans, horses on site, an alpaca and pigeons house. There are also a couple of amazing bars, a cafe, an ice cream tender, a few gift kiosks, a wine tasting cellar (amazing to see!), a small chapel to light a candle and substantial grounds. 

The banquet/wine tasting cellars

With free parking and just 10lev for adults (£5) and 5lev (£2.50) for children its worth a stop by. I guarantee you will have seen nothing like it!! 

The only shame is that the inside of the Castle is not yet finished so you can not go in. I am truly excited to see how the inside will dressed and what mystical and decadant furnishings they will incorporate.
 
I have travelled and seen many places around the world and never thought I would be so amazed with a venue in Bulgaria to choose it as my wedding venue. 


Well done to the owner, designers and the builders who have made this place a reality. You have achieved an outstanding Castle so far and can’t wait to see how it transforms into your finished vision. 

Close by is Sozopol just minutes drive away which has a charming old town, marina and beach with loungers and beachside restaurants to fill up your day out.

I’m filled with delight as I walk back out of the gates and even buy the souvenir photo! It has been so lovely to unexpectedly find such an unusual place. 

New York, New York – I said YES!

I have been to New York many times and is the home of my favourite building in the world: The Chrysler Building!!   The glamour of its art-deco design is so my era. 1950’s movie star decadence and design features tick all of my boxes.


With London always having my heart, New York is without doubt my favourite city outside of my home county.  So how appropriate that on my 38th year I should have the opportunity to say YES to my very best friend and traveling buddy!



Take a look at my hotel reviews to decide where suits you to stay:

Radisson Lexington

My first impressions of the city when I first came with a girl friend all those years ago was that it is a magical place, a safe city that’s accessible, easy to get around and just so much fun!  There are just so many ‘hidden treasures’ when it comes to places to eat and drink that you need to get chatting to a true New Yorker for the low down on where the ‘hot spots’ of the moment are.  With each visit I try to find a new one to add to my list!

In general I am not a Christmassy person.  It has never really been by favourite time of year as it is for so many, perhaps being the youngest of 4 children I didn’t get to ‘believe’ for very long, so I never really felt that Christmas magic to get me on the hook!  Yet the magic of New York never fails to bring out the Christmas spirit in me and as such, this has remained my favourite time to visit this magnificent City.


December is a very cold month in New York.  When the wind whips through the city, the big tower blocks create tunnels which soon blast you with frosty air.  Expect blue skies and crisp tempretures and more than likely snow.  Bring a hat, gloves, ski-jacket, leggings or tights to wear under your trousers and a big scarf that you can snuggle your face down into (trust me, you will thank me for those tips!)

If you’re in New York in December, then it is all about the festive decorations that illuminate the streets and the huge Christmas tree donated by Norway that stands proudly at the front of the Rockafella Centre.  In some respects, you could say December is the cheapest time to visit as so many attractions are free, such as watching the ice skating at Rockafella or Central Park, looking in awe at the department stores most amazing Christmas window displays, watching the light shows on the front of the decorated buildings on Fifth Avenue as well as randomly bumping into carol singers and people passing on the Christmas cheer!


Getting Around:

I love to walk the streets of New York, but of course legs do give in at some point and in general I opt for the good old fashioned taxi cab.  Easy to hail down in most areas, but do be warned the far east end from Freedom Tower down to the Statue of Liberty cabs are not so frequently driving by.

Things to do and see: (see my blogs on the following attractions)

Statue of Liberty

Chrysler Building

Rockafella Centre

Grand Central Station (FREE)

Radio City – The Rockettes

Empire State Building

Horse & Carriage ride around Central Park

Time Square and Broadway

Walk the Highline

Cheering on the Giants at Metlife Stadium

 

If only here for the traditional weekend break, three full night stay, this is what I would do!

Late night arrival:
Fly out in the evening and arrive late into New York.  Head straight to your hotel and get a good nights sleep.  Jetlag will have you wide awake bright and early and you have a FULL day of sight seeing ahead of you!

Day 1:

 

 

 

 

 

A good ‘airport hotel’ when flying from Birmingham International

A hotel room for a night before an early flight is always the one thing that you give little thought to. You want it to be a cheap and as close to the airport as possible, right? but Is this really the best start to our holiday?
How about if instead of working up until the last minute frantically ticking everything off of your To Do List and finishing that one last report or sending that one last email… How about instead, you took the time to check in early afternoon and had a hotel where you have some facilities there to enjoy and could start the wind down to your travels nice and early. Oh, and all importantly, it still wont eat drastically into your holiday spending money!!
Sound like heaven?
This is exactly what we chose to do for our family holiday flying out of Birmingham International at 5.15am (yikes!)

Welcome to the Hilton Metropole @ Birmingham NEC

Parking is easy, directly outside but does cost you £12.00 to park for the evening, although on both of my stays here the receptionist has waived the charge without me asking. Nice touch–  it always pays to be nice and smile at Check-In desks!

Check-in is always very friendly and helpful, rooms are a good size.  Some a little more modern than others.  Family rooms come with a sofa bed and a king.

We arrived for 3pm to make the most of our stay, so now what?

Use the Health Club!

The health club (Livingwell) has a fairly large sized pool with a sauna and steam room and a gym with plenty of equipment to keep you occupied.  There is no additional charge to use the facilities, it is all included within your room rate.

If you really want to start your holiday off the right way, book in at the spa for a relaxing massage or a pedicure!  With two children I could indulge in neither of those two things, but settling for a splash around in the pool and tiring them out was enough for me.

hilton

Now time for dinner

The onsite al la carte restaurant (Millers) requires a booking (although I’m sure in reality will be happy to accept a walk in).  It’s a nice setting and a little more ‘upmarket’ than eating in the lounge.  Food also good.

We chose, on this occasion to not to punish those enjoying a delightful evening meal and instead took our two very excited children to eat in the large open space lounge. A pleasant environment, friendly staff, good service, a great selection of cocktails and the food was exceptionally good, far better than we would have expected! It all appeared to be home-made food including the children’s fish fingers and chicken nuggets, very tasty.

Now its off to bed for an early night all round, ready for our 5am flight!

 

All in all a pleasant stay at a pleasant hotel. I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend and will definitely be back for a further stay next time we need to be in the area.

For £90.00 for a mid-week room (booked on Booking.com in August 2017) for a family of four and to be a 5min drive to the airport, you can’t beat it!!

 

Executive suites available for those looking for something a little more premium.

What are hotels really like in School Holidays?? Staying at the Fort Noks Premier Resort, Bulgaria

premier_aparthotel

The thought of a full-board hotel with two children under 10 in the peak of the school holidays does not get me itching to grab my passport and get going! “What’s the pool like?, How big is it?, Does it have slides and things to play on?” is ringing in my ears as I make the hotel selection for the family holiday.

I’m one of these characters that can happily spend family time with our own children (in my case ‘step’), but the high pitch screeches, melt downs and tantrums of other peoples children is just like nails on a chalkboard – ouch!

So in trying to find the happy balance between a quiet location but with things to entertain the children, a good standard but 5 star luxury would be wasted on them and of course close enough to a few sites and attractions that us adults may take some time out of the ‘fun pool’ and drag the children around in the hope of giving them some culture education that they will reflect upon in later life (who am I kidding?… if they remember much more than the size of the swimming pool and the number of slides we will be doing well!); this is what shone through as a good option for our family for our child friendly summer holiday:

Located outside of Sunny Beach this hotel/apartment complex is to a good 4star standard. All very clean and the grounds are well kept.

We had a one bedroom apartment for a family of four which had a double sofa bed in the lounge. The apartment itself was very clean and modern with good storage. The bathroom was a shower cubicle (no bath) so if a bath is essential to you, request it at time of booking as I understand some apartments do come with both.

bulgaria bathroom
There is a small kitchenette with a fridge/freezer, two ring hob, kettle, toaster and microwave along with crockery, cutlery and pans. All apartments have a good sized balcony, which come with a clothes airer and mini plastic table and 4 chairs. The aircon unit fan elements are located on the balcony so these are pumping out warm air. Great for drying clothes but does make it a little uncomfortable to sit out there when these are going.

There was a reasonable size TV mounted on the wall in the lounge which had UK channels as well as European. There was also a safety deposit box free to use.

To my glee the apartment also came with a washing machine along with complimentary powder which was replaced when all used up part way through the holiday. Not very rock n roll but was a god send with children!!

The apartment was cleaned everyday and fresh towels. A nice touch was the supply of 4 beach towels left in your room for use during your stay.

The only issue’s we had with our apartment was that the hot water would run out on shower 3 in a row. If you stop and start the shower between soaping and rinsing you may just get all four showers out of it. 

The beds were quite hard and as doubles they came and with two single duvets which is a little annoying! 

The hotel lobby has amazing flooring, reception staff reasonably friendly and helpful and arranged an early check-in for us and also helped us arrange car hire which was delivered to the hotel for us and we had free parking on site.

There are three pools on site. A smallish one by the restaurant which is more suitable to adults and then a larger children’s fun pool with a water slide and a separate baby pool. Loungers are multiple around the pools, but as with anywhere in the school holidays it does get very busy. There is a pool side bar/cafe by the fun pool.

On site there is shop selling all essentials plus inflatables etc for the children. It isn’t the cheapest of shops, other supermarkets in the area are cheaper but this one is obviously convenient.

There is also a spa offering a range of treatment (massage was very good!) again it does get busy so book in advance. There is also a first aid room which is handy with kids when they fall over and graze their knee etc!

The children’s club (Animations Team) in all honestly wasn’t the best. It was more like a crèche and the activities really didn’t look that fun. The staff were forced to come out twice a day to the edge of the pool and do a repetitive routine to a very long and annoying song. The staff clearly didn’t want to be doing it! There were no smiles or cheering on as they performed it was clearly just a chore that they wanted to be over asap. I personally would scrap this. Offers nothing to holiday makers and clearly makes the staff uncomfortable.

The beach is just at the edge of the complex and there are plenty of loungers that you can pay for to sit out. The sea is exceptionally calm in this particular area and the sea has shallow spots even a little way out, so really is a good area for swimming with children.
Food: 

We booked full board. In hindsight we would have been better opting for half board as once we had a car it was more fun (and relatively cheap to eat out). The buffet restaurant at the hotel is what you come to expect with food not being particularly warm and the offering becoming somewhat monotonous.

After two mornings of absolute mayhem at the breakfast buffet coupled with cold food and fights at the serving counters, we decided to ‘opt out’ for the rest of the week, instead choosing a more calm and pleasant morning utilising our kitchen facility within the apartment and eating there.

The restaurant was more manageable during lunch and dinner buffets and there was a far more pleasant atmosphere to enjoy your food.

Note: drinks only included with breakfast, you must pay for all drinks with lunch and dinner.

 

If you have chosen this hotel to purely sit around the pool/beach for a week, eat only in the hotel,  then the Premier Beach Apart/Hotel is a good option for you. If you like to wander around a town or look in shops etc then you will find nothing to entertain you here.

Shuttles, taxi’s or car hire can soon take you a few miles down the road to the resorts of Sunny Beach and Nesebar (see my reviews)

 

Frantic Family Fun in Bulgaria

So its the school holidays and is only fair that in-between our adult only jet setting that we should take the two little ones (Girls aged 3 and 8) on a good old fashioned family holiday for fun in the sun, sand and lots of time in the water!

But does it all have to be built-up resorts, screaming children at every turn and any sane persons idea of hell???  Well, I can’t promise a trip to the Black Sea Coast in Bulgaria will steer clear of all of that, but I can share our experience to help you plan an even better trip!

We chose Bulgaria this year as quite simply we have never been.  Don’t expect to be welcomed with open arms as British tourists or abtcipate that everyone will speak and understand English, but you can normally communicate with enough words to get by.

Tourism here for the Brits is still pretty new, but you will see many eastern Europeans attracted to these resorts.

Locals just don’t appear to be of a friendly nature, customer services just doesn’t seem to be their thing.  Learning Bulgarian is not going to be anything that will come easy to you what with them having a completely different alphabet, so reside yourself to the fact that you will be at their mercy and learn to shrug off their general rudness.  Afterall they are speaking better English even with just the odd word than we are Bulgarian.

Setting off:

We find an early morning flight with little ones the best.  They tend to still be tired and sleep with a bit of luck.  Its a 3.5hr flight from Birmingham sirport and we fly with Thomas Cook Airlines which all goes without a hitch.  Taking the portible DVD players with headphones for the girls is a god send for the plane and for the entire holiday – never leave home without them!

Arriving in Bulgaria:

The border contril is far from quick even when still part of the eurpean union so we can only wonder what delays us as brits are set to experiencepost Brexit.  There is lucky a WC in the waiting area though!

Our luggae was ready and waiting the other side so we are left with only a transfer to sort to take us to our four star aparthotel resort – Fort Noks Premier, Sveti Vlas, which we know to be around 3okm from the airport and a 20-30minute drive.  We approach the taxi rank located immediately outside of the airport exit doors just over to the left.  We are shown to a taxi and our bags loaded in – so far so good….  Then  it all goes wrong, we ask the taxi driver for an idea on price who is unable to tell us as its all on a meter but predicts about 100lv (£50).  Bearing in mind he is classed as the taxi driver for the airport only and we are going to a main area of Bulgaria it was a little odd that he couldn’t give us a price.  The plot then thickens when we are told it will be more than usual as a road it shut and he is going to have to go the long way around adding another 15-20 minutes to our journey!  – that old chesnut!  We asked him to take the normal route we were happy to risk the road closures but he ignored us and went cross country anyway.

After finally arriving at our hotel with two very hot and bothered children as the aircon wasn’t working and the bumpy road was enough to make any good passenger feel travel sick, we were presented with a charge of 150lv (£75.00).

We had been well and truly ‘had’ and the most frustratiung thing was we knew it was happening.  When children are in tow the flexibility to say stop, walk away and try and different route for your journey is just not possible.  It was such a shame to start off our holiday with a bitter taste in our mouth.

 

The Hotel: Fort Noks, Premier

Located outside of Sunny Beach this hotel/apartment complex is to a good 4star standard. All very clean and the grounds are well kept.

We had a one bedroom apartment for a family of four which had a double sofa bed in the lounge. The apartment itself was very clean and modern with good storage. The bathroom was a shower cubicle (no bath) so if a bath is essential to you, request it at time of booking as I understand some apartments do come with both.

There is a small kitchenette with a fridge/freezer, two ring hob, kettle, toaster and microwave along with crockery, cutlery and pans. All apartments have a good sized balcony, which come with a clothes airer and mini plastic table and 4 chairs. The aircon unit fan elements are located on the balcony so these are pumping out warm air. Great for drying clothes but does make it a little uncomfortable to sit out there when these are going.

There was a reasonable size TV mounted on the wall in the lounge which had UK channels as well as European. There was also a safety deposit box free to use.

To my glee the apartment also came with a washing machine along with complimentary powder which was replaced when all used up part way through the holiday. Not very rock n roll but was a god send with children!!

The apartment was cleaned everyday and fresh towels. A nice touch was the supply of 4 beach towels left in your room for use during your stay.

The only issue we had with our apartment was that the hot water would run out on shower 3 in a row. If you stop and start the shower between soaping and rinsing you may just get all four showers out of it.

The beds were quite hard and as doubles they came and with two single duvets which is a little annoying!

The hotel lobby has amazing flooring, reception staff reasonably friendly and helpful and arranged an early check-in for us and also helped us arrange car hire which was delivered to the hotel for us and we had free parking on site.

There are three pools on site. A smallish one by the restaurant which is more suitable to adults and then a larger children’s fun pool with a water slide and a separate baby pool. Loungers are multiple around the pools, but as with anywhere in the school holidays it does get very busy. There is a pool side bar/cafe by the fun pool.

On site there is shop selling all essentials plus inflatables etc for the children. It isn’t the cheapest of shops, other supermarkets in the area are cheaper but this one is obviously convenient.

There is also a spa offering a range of treatment (massage was very good!) again it does get busy so book in advance. There is also a first aid room which is handy with kids when they fall over and graze their knee etc!

The children’s club (Animations Team) in all honestly wasn’t the best. It was more like a crèche and the activities really didn’t look that fun. The staff were forced to come out twice a day to the edge of the pool and do a repetitive routine to a very long and annoying song. The staff clearly didn’t want to be doing it! There were no smiles or cheering on as they performed it was clearly just a chore that they wanted to be over asap. I personally would scrap this. Offers nothing to holiday makers and clearly makes the staff uncomfortable.

The beach is just at the edge of the complex and there are plenty of loungers that you can pay for to sit out. The sea is exceptionally calm in this particular area and the sea has shallow spots even a little way out, so really is a good area for swimming with children.
Food:

We went full board. In hindsight we would have been better opting for half board as once we had a car it was more fun (and relatively cheap to eat out). The buffet restaurant at the hotel is what you come to expect with food not being that warm and the offering staying the same and becoming a little boring. We opted out of breakfast as after two morning of absolute mayhem in the restaurant, cold food and fights at the buffet counter we found it a more calming and pleasant morning to utilise our kitchen facility within the apartment and eat there.
The restaurant was far better for lunch and dinner and there was a far more chilled out atmosphere to enjoy your food.
Note: drinks only included with breakfast, you must pay for all drinks with lunch and dinner.

If you have chosen this hotel to purely sit around the pool/beach and eat in the hotel then this hotel is a good option for you. If you like to wander around a town or look in shops etc then it may be worth hiring a car as there is much more accessible within easy driving distance and the roads are all well signed. Nesabar old town is certainly one to visit.

 

 

Resorts and Beaches

 

Attractions